Stop “Teaching” Women How To Deal With Dating

“Hey ladies, here’s what you’re doing wrong. Here’s what you need to stop doing right now. Here’s how to deal with dating.” My question is, why is it always women who have to change to accommodate and “deal with” dating? Why are men never asked to stop giving women shit to deal with? Dating is not women’s problem. Dating is an even exchange of time and attention between two people with similar wants and goals. Anything else is bullshit. I’m deeply tired of bibles and bibles of advice going out to the dating women of the world while men get to decide what the advice is going to be about. You don’t have to change who you are or what you want in order to date. But you might have to start walking away from less than you deserve.

I explore this topic in detail, and with significant, warranted rage, on Medium.