Stop Pretending You Don't Give A Shit

There’s a misguided narrative in dating culture. We think, because we’ve been groomed to, that we have to be “chill” about dating, or nobody will like us. But what if you have…you know, feelings about someone or some situation? Why is the default narrative that we have to lie about our feelings, as if our feelings are the things that repel people? And if people are repelled by who we authentically are, why is that not a good thing that protects us from being with the wrong people?

What I’m saying is, you’re allowed to give a shit. You’re allowed to not be chill. More detail as to why can be found here: You Can’t Scare Away The Right People For You.